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Alexa Divett
Are you staring at the map to your success,
but aren’t sure which way is north?
Find out why these clients are finding their
‘compass rose’ in Alexa Divett of Coaching Cognition.
“Even a coach who just allowed you to share your thoughts would be a benefit, but a coach who knows how to facilitate your own ability to draw out your solutions with the right questions is priceless… Alexa’s continued guidance in our second session brought more sense to what I needed to do and gave me motivation that I needed to follow-thru. Trying to find my “niche” was not so confusing anymore. It’s a whole lot clearer now!” – Fran Gourdet
“Alexa helped me to focus in on finding my niche within the first ten minutes! It is very obvious Alexa knows and likes what she is doing. Alexa concentrated on where I am at, not where SHE thinks I should be. I would recommend coaching to anyone that needs to focus or has hit a wall. I would rate* this higher if there were more numbers.” –Doug Hocker
*[the rating system is 1 – 5 stars]
“Alexa was totally present for me in our coaching session. She helped me access some emotional issues that I wasn’t aware were affecting my business at the moment… Alexa did an excellent job of drawing me out and helping me find a plan to move forward. She also offered a good strategy for me to try to get a handle on my overwhelm issues.” – Claire Covington
“I feel I am much clearer and have a course of action for moving forward. I had been overwhelmed and found myself going off in 50 different directions and Alexa was able to ask questions that gave me a definite course of action bsed on my strengths and needs. My sense of overwhelm has turned into purpose with direction. Thank you Alexa!” – Phyllis Mullins
Alexa Divett of Coaching Cognition, a coach with the ability to reach inside you and pull out the solutions to your success with carefully crafted questions. During coaching sessions with Alexa, her clients are getting organized, finding out what is blocking them from moving forward and taking action, or just moving faster than they thought possible.
You can experience this forward motion for yourself and your business by logging into your Renegade Professional Account and clicking on the Coaches icon on the main menu. Start navigating your roadmap to success today!
Looking for more information on how to approach the obstacles that every business owner faces from time to time? Read Kendall Silva’s article here at Renegade Professional News, “What will it take for you to ‘Risk’ Success?”
For more discussion on this, or to ask more questions about how coaching can help you succeed in life and business, join the community of Coaching Cognition coaches, students, clients, and friends on Facebook.
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Alexa Divett
I just had an inspiring interview with Alexa Divett, one of our coaches at Coaching Cognition. This is a woman with purpose, dedication, follow through, and the ability to help others find those qualities within themselves in all areas of life.
Her love for the coaching profession absolutely shines through. You can see that she believes in the process whole-heartedly and embraces the opportunity to use that process to help others. When you talk her, the energy and passion that radiates from within her gives you a sense of empowerment and confidence because you know that she is dedicated to her life’s role as a coach.
Alexa has elevated through the coaching levels at Coaching Cognition at an amazing pace and has proven that goal setting and taking action will bring you success. The coaching level system is a way to rank the coaches in terms of experience with Coaching Cognition. She discusses this in more detail in our interview.
She has a Health and Wellness coaching program that is great for entrepreneurs. Alexa explains that when we start our own business, the areas in which our lives are unbalanced suddenly become obvious. Many times, it is our health and wellness that is most effected because it is the area that many of us tend to ignore. Her description of how she uses health and wellness to allow for improvement in other important areas of life is inspiring.
Alexa will also add the element of ‘consultation’ to her sessions when it fits with the discussion. She finds that her clients really thrive on this format because sometimes it can be nice to brainstorm with someone else. Remember, consultation is different from coaching because consultation has a more directive approach that does not draw from the client’s own answers. Consulting has its place, and as long as a distinction is made at the time that coaching stops and consulting begins, which Alexa does, a client may get some great value from it.
Alexa Divett has teamed up with Curt Johnson and Mike Wilson to provide group coaching services for entrepreneurs, and the dynamic of these three coaches is a powerful combination. Because their styles and skill sets are so different, you are likely to discover the coaching style or approach that is the best fit for you. This is great for someone who has never received coaching services before and you are unsure of what kind of style will benefit you the most.
Alexa is a strong coach who can help you take your life and business to the next level by assessing where you are now, where you want to be, and making a plan to get you there. She said these words about coaching in our interview, which I found inspiring:
“Its about allowing the clients unique greatness to shine through
and then taking them to the next level based upon that greatness and
reminding them that they have it in them and
that they absolutely can do whatever they set their minds to”
Alexa Divett will help you discover your unique greatness, and when you are ready to go to the next level, Alexa will be a valuable guide and partner. Find her at the Coaching Cognition site by logging into your Renegade Professional account and clicking on the Coaches icon on the main menu. If Alexa does not show up on the first page, then click on Meet Our Coaches on the quick pick menu and find her on the list of coaches.
Looking for ways to take action, but aren’t sure which direction to go? Do you feel like there is nothing left to do about a certain situation, but you still feel the need to DO something? Get a sneak peak into the world of coaching and what it can do for you by accessing these free tools that will help you ‘coach’ yourself through it in Kendall Silva’s article, “What to DO When There’s ‘Nothing You Can Do’”.
Want to know more about coaching and connect with other coaches and coaches in training? Join our discussions on Facebook at the Coaching Cognition Page.
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Life coaching has exploded onto the reality television market, and the world is watching with their eyes and minds wide open. But are they getting an accurate portrayal of what life coaching is? Some coaches say no. Others suspect the reality show life coaches are actors with a script. Still others believe that only a specific type of life coach is being presented to the world.
Many of the life coaches on reality television take a very directive approach. Some ‘real-life’ coaches believe that this intense directive approach is too demanding and does not allow the answers to come from the within client. They refer to the reality show coaches as ‘drill sergeants’ and many believe that this image is hurting the coaching world because people are not getting an accurate idea of what life coaching really is.
So, what is a life coach… really?
A life coach works with clients to help them achieve goals by helping them define their values, making sure their goals align with those values, creating an action plan, and holding them accountable for that action plan.
The process is action oriented. This does not mean that a life coach tells you how to live a good life, but helps you decide for yourself what a “good life” means to you and how to achieve it. They are trained to listen, observe, give feedback, and ask powerful questions that get you thinking more deeply about what it is you really want and how to get it.
There are many different styles of coaching that are specific to each coach, and this is okay. Not everyone is the same, and the coaching styles can be as diverse as client personalities.
This is why it is so important for those seeking coaching to ‘try out’ (have free consultation sessions with) different coaches until you find one that fits you. For instance, Coaching Cognition coaches offer free 15 minute introductory sessions that allow you to get an idea of each coach’s style and personality.
The reality television market is obviously thriving on the directive in-your-face approach because it causes more confrontation that makes for great television. However, the fact that life coaches have such a strong presence in television is probably more important than the accuracy of the life coaches portrayed.
Perhaps the real question is how the image of life coaching in the media affects the real world of coaching.
The presence of life coaches on so many new reality shows is doing one important thing. It is telling the world that life coaching exists. Beyond that, most people are not getting the full picture of what life coaching really is, how they can benefit, or how to access services. But they are INTERESTED IN LEARNING MORE.
So coaches can certainly leverage this publicity to give information to the masses whose ears are open, minds are primed to absorb, and desires are geared toward personal and professional success.
If you are a coach, this means it is time to start pumping out that information. Whether you believe the Hollywood image of coaching is accurate, partly accurate, or completely inaccurate, this is a perfect opportunity to share what you do, what your specialties are, and how you can help people achieve their goals. They are ready and eager to learn about you.
If you know little about coaching, but have been hearing bits and pieces of how you may benefit from getting a coach, becoming a coach, or just learning about the coaching process, you are encouraged to get out there and find out.
A great place to start is to visit the Coaching Cognition Facebook page where there is currently a lot of discussion on this very subject.
You can also learn more about how Coaching Cognition can help you take your life and your business to the next level by logging into your Renegade Pro back office and clicking the ‘Coaches’ icon.
To learn more about Life Coaching in Hollywood and in the media, read our related article, “Are Life Coaches the New TEACUP CHIHUAHUAS?: Pop culture connections and why you can find success in coaching”.
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As a student of Coaching Cognition, and I am learning the coaching principles you describe in relation to the client being the “expert” rather than the coach.
It seems to me, that the “drill sergeant” may have influence for a short while. But, wouldn’t you think that once the student moves on from that relationship it would be pretty hard to implement residual change when it doesn’t come from within.
Real change comes when a coach facilitates the client to find the answers for change for themselves from within themselves.
Comment by Pat Campbell — April 1, 2010 @ 4:22 pm
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I agree full heartedly with my fellow Coaching Cognition student,Pat;
Most people already have a boss…and certainly don’t need another one,especially when it comes to their lives.
…and it’s definately not a story of’I'll keep beating you until you’re motivated’Real change through coaching comes from those coaches listening(which is an artform all by itself) and asking the client questions to bring out the answers from within the clients themselves.
Even though the coach will be holding the client accountable,encourages them and walks alongside them in this development process,progress will be fully at the client’s pace and requirements.
Comment by Jan Robberts — April 2, 2010 @ 6:45 am
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It’s well worth the time to find a coach whose coaching style fits the client’s style. This relationship is one of the most important a person can make – that’s why most coaches offer a free introductory “get to know you” session – they realize how important it is that there be a good fit.
There are those who might need and want the drill sergeant approach — others want a more nurturing support. Either way, the object is to get them into action moving toward goals that are important to them and helping them live up to their own true potential.
Comment by Barbara Silva — April 2, 2010 @ 9:54 am
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What a great post! Media is certainly not doing a great job portraying Life Coaches. Many people think life coaches are all about some big talks and stealing big bucks from client’s pocket in a very legit way!
The closest example is my Hubby and I don’t blame him entirely. Obviously he got this perception through media. And there are lot of money sucking big names out there–right?
But what Coaching Cognition is doing is amazing! With such small price tag what a tremendous value you guys are offering! And love the community of coaches here.
Comment by Sanjida Hasnin — April 2, 2010 @ 12:11 pm
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One thing I’ve learned about coaches from the Renegade Professional community is how affordable they are. From the Hollywood perspective, I assumed a life coach would cost thousands of dollars–a possibility for Oprah or celebrities but not for ordinary people. It’s so great that I can get real help from trained coaches for less than dinner and a movie.
You can learn the technical aspects of internet or network marketing, but if your mind is holding you back, all the training in the world won’t make a difference.
I highly recommend coaching for any one struggling with (well, anything really, but specifically) procrastination, fear, rejection–anything holding you back from reaching your full potential and achieving success.
Thanks to Coaching Cognition for providing an accessible, affordable, personalized coaching solution!! It’s brilliant.
Kari Baxter
Comment by Renegade Marketer Pro — April 2, 2010 @ 5:12 pm
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Yes we have our work cut out for us. We are going to need to show the public what it means to be coached by a Coaching Cognition trained. Maybe we should do our own reality show!
I have seen some quite dramatic changes when allowing the process to work, and giving the client the space to work things out for themselves.
After all, our clients are capable of taking control of their own lives and have to live with the path they choose to follow, so it makes sense that they choose that path.Comment by Mary Speller — April 2, 2010 @ 5:28 pm
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Alexa, You’ve arrived! So glad to see you here as a featured coach. Your pic is gorgeous but more importantly are your goals and ambitions. Looking forward to seeing what you can do working with the youth in your area. (What you shared with me in January).
I’m so glad we finally connected up in Portland. It’s so cool to meet someone I’ve known for so long. So glad Curt brought us together… how many years ago? It feels like forever.
Hope to see you again soon and absolute best wishes in your new coaching career. You’ve been well served by Barbara. She is best of the best!
Many blessings,
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Comment by Ann Sieg — April 20, 2010 @ 11:02 pm
Congratulations on your fast pace moving through the Coaching Cognition levels, Alexa. There is definitely a reason for this and it shows in this interview. You have such great energy and you are such an intelligent woman. Your clients should feel blessed to have you as their coach.
I am so honored to be your colleague.
Kendall, you are a great interviewer and I loved the questions you asked Alexa. Keep up the great work. Loved reading your posts as well.
w/Love,
DiDi
Comment by Diyana Alcheva -- DiDi — April 21, 2010 @ 1:32 am
Alexa,
Good interview let me rephrase that great interview. I was extremely beneficial to me to hear it does not take so long to achieve high ranking as a coach. Providing we keep our noses down and go for the gold.
Thanks
Patty
Comment by Patty Jones — April 21, 2010 @ 7:09 am
Alexa,
Great interview and article!
I’m pleased and proud to be able to work with you in Coaching Cognition, and especially in developing group coaching programs for clients.
You’ve got my support in building your business and developing your vision!
Michael
Comment by Michael Wilson — April 21, 2010 @ 10:27 am
Thank you to everyone at Renegade Pro and Coaching Cognition for providing me with the platform to jump and soar off of.
I am blessed to be surrounded by such amazing, talented marketers and entrepreneurs.
A special thank you to Curt Johnson and Ann Sieg because without their guidance and inspiration I may still be hating life in a dead-end job!
And, yes Ann I am so excited about the youth market and it was an honor and pleasure to meet all of you last January in Portland.
Comment by Alexa Divett — April 21, 2010 @ 10:33 am
What a great interview. I, like Patty, am grateful that it is possible to move up quickly through the levels at Coaching Cognition. Your clients must love you. Your energy and enthusiasm are quite evident from your interview.
Kendall, I’m enjoying everything you’re writing.
Comment by Tracey Hausel — April 24, 2010 @ 7:53 am